Kungenzeka ukuba uphuphe ngeekati, zinjalo isilwanyana esixhaphake kakhulu kubomi bethu bemihla ngemihla. Sibabona esitratweni, kumabonakude, kwizindlu zezihlobo zethu, zabamelwane, zamalungu osapho okanye kwezakwethu, ngoku kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngabo?
Namhlanje sibuyela kwilizwe lamaphupha ukuze sifumanise Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngezi ntaka? ekhoyo ebomini bethu kwaye abaninzi baziva benomdla wokwenyani.
Phupha malunga neekati
Ukuphupha ngeekati kuyinto eqhelekileyo, njengoko kuqhelekile ukuphupha ngezinye izilwanyana, ingakumbi ezo sihlala nazo okanye esizibona mihla le. Xa uphupha ingqondo yethu ikhulula iimvakalelo, iimvakalelo, iimbono kunye nokuphonononga izinto ezenzekileyo okanye ezenzekayo kuthi.
Nokuba sinekati ekhaya ehlala nathi, kulula ukuba sigqibe kwelokuba siphuphe enye kwaye Ngokuxhomekeke kwindlela ebonakala ngayo ikati emaphupheni ethu, anentsingiselo enye okanye enye.. Makhe sicazulule iintsingiselo ezahlukeneyo zokuphupha malunga neekati.
Iintsingiselo ezahlukeneyo zokuphupha malunga neekati
Iikati zikho esinye sezilwanyana esihlala sichwechwela emaphupheni ethu. Isilwanyana esihlonelwayo kwi-Egypt yaMandulo, uphawu lobufazi, ubomi, uphawu lwamandla, uphawu lokusebenzelana nemimoya kunye nemfihlakalo. Kwaye kwihlabathi lamaphupha lineentsingiselo ezininzi ngakumbi njengoko siza kubona.
Ukuphupha iikati ezisandul 'ukuzalwa
Xa siphupha iikati zifuzisela oko Kukho into eza kuqalisa, luphawu lwesiqalo esitsha esibalulekileyo. Oku kuthetha ukuvulwa kwamathuba amatsha kwaye kufuneka siqaphele ukuba singaphoswa lelo thuba. Asimele sizivumele ukuba sithabatheke zizinto zethu ezityhutyhayo kodwa ngentloko nangentliziyo kodwa sicamngce kakuhle ngaphambi kokuba senze okuthile.
Ukuqonda ngcono esi siqalo esitsha, unokufunda malunga iziqalo ezintsha kumaphupha akho kwaye kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ngeentsana kunye nabantwana abasanda kuzalwa.
Xa ikati inobudlova kumaphupha ethu
Ikati ebonakala emaphupheni ethu isenokungabi yincinci iqala ubomi bayo kodwa ibe yikati ekhulileyo eba ndlongondlongo. Ukuba loo kati izama ukusikrwempa okanye ukusiluma, oko kuthetha ukuba siziva sisongelwa yinto ethile Kwenzeka ntoni ebomini bethu, inokuba ngumcimbi womsebenzi, ubomi bentsapho okanye ubudlelwane.
Umbala wekati nawo unentsingiselo
Ukuba ikati imnyama
Iikati ezimnyama bezisoloko ziyinxalenye yeengcamango ezidumileyo njengenxalenye yemfihlakalo, ubugqwirha okanye i-paranormal. Isimboli seenkolelo zabaninzi, kodwa ngamaphupha amashwa ayisiyiyo into ehamba nekati emnyama. Le kati ithetha ukuba Inqanaba elingaziwayo liyeza, linokuba lihle okanye libi kwaye liya kuxhomekeka kuthi khokela eli nqanaba, nangona sinokwenza kuphela oko kusemandleni ethu ukukwenza.
Ukuqonda ngcono iinkolelo, unokutyelela inqaku lethu Kutheni kuthiwa iikati ezimnyama zizisa amashwa? kwaye ufunde ngakumbi malunga nesimboli sayo.
Ukuba ikati imhlophe
Umhlophe ngumbala wokucoceka, ukulunga, kwaye ngoko ukuphupha ikati yaloo mbala kuthetha into enhle. Sisenokuba sintywiliselwa kwiprojekthi yobuqu okanye yomsebenzi, kuloo meko Oku kuthetha ukuba yonke into iza kulunga. Zikwayikati ezinokuvela emaphupheni ethu ukuze singaphosi itawuli, ukuze sibe nethemba kumanqanaba anzima obomi bethu.
Iikati zithanda iibhokisi zekhadibhodi
Xa ephupheni sidlala nekati...
Enoba singabo badlala nekati, abanye okanye ikati ngokwayo, xa sibona ikati idlala oko kuthetha ukuba sifuna inkululeko. Kungenzeka ukuba sihamba kwisigaba soxinzelelo, soxinzelelo, sinamathele emsebenzini, ngokobuqu, ngothando, kwizifundo ... Kungenzeka ukuba into esiyenzayo masijonge inkululeko yokuphuma kuloo meko.
Ukufumana ulwazi oluninzi malunga nobudlelwane kunye nenkululeko kumaphupha, unokufunda malunga intsingiselo yokuphupha ngeekati kwaye uphonononge iintsingiselo ezahlukeneyo zala maphupha.
Ephupheni siphulula ikati
I-Caresses yinto entle, entle, iyasiphumza. Kodwa inokuba necala elibi kancinci, Ukuba ukuphulula loo kati akusiniki uxolo nokuphumla, oko kuthetha ukuba kukho umntu osingqongileyo uneengxaki. kwaye ufuna uncedo lwethu.
Ukuba ikati esiyiphululayo izolile kwaye ilele, oko kuthetha ukuba sisemzuzwana wobomi bethu kunye namandla afanayo. Siphilile okanye sele siza kuziva kakuhle kwaye sizolile kwinqanaba elithile ebomini bethu. Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo eli lelona phupha lihle kakhulu lekati esinokuba nalo.
Iphupha elineekati ezininzi
Ikati enye akufuneki ibonakale emaphupheni, kunokubakho iikati ezininzi ngaxeshanye kwaye oko kunokuthetha izinto ezininzi. Inani elikhulu leekati lithetha ukuba utshintsho olubalulekileyo luyeza ebomini bethu, utshintsho oluhle okanye olubi, kodwa utshintsho. Ukuba olo tshintsho lunxulumene nomsebenzi, oko kuthetha impumelelo.
Kwimeko yangaphambili siza kubona iikati ezisebenzayo, ezihambayo, ezisijikelezileyo, zixubha emilenzeni yethu, zidlala kunye, zihamba ngesitrato ... Kodwa Ukuba iikati zisahleli kwaye zisijongile, oko kuthetha ukuba siziva singenanto yabucala, sibukele, sigxininisekile. ngabaphathi bethu, mhlawumbi abaphathi bethu okanye abazali bethu. Olo xhala lusenokuza ngenxa yokuba siziva siphantsi okanye asiyifikeleli imisebenzi esimele siyenze, ngoko qalisa ukuzithemba.
